Finding your mojo again, how I reconnected with my love for riding

We have all felt it, the loss of motivation and love that we once had, now nowhere to be found. I have been there too! My passion for riding and working with my horses felt distant but with care and consideration I was able to reconnect with why I do what I do. Here are practical steps that will help you climb out of that rut.

1. Reconnect with your original vision- I spent a day digging inward to remember why I started. Recalling my core values, why I love horses, how I want to train, and what truly matters. All helped me release expectations and lighten the pressure. That clarity let me show up again simply to enjoy being with my horses. The spark returned slowly; that’s okay. Be gentle with yourself.

2. Check your commitment and connection- Once I remembered my vision, I honestly assessed my commitment. The passion was still there, just smaller. Realising that I hadn’t fundamentally changed allowed me to reconnect to what’s important and gave me the confidence to keep going.

3. Reflect on how far you’ve come- I took time to celebrate progress, imagining what my past self would think of where I am today. That perspective warmed me and boosted my motivation. Reflection reminded me this journey matters.

4. Take the next step- I committed to showing up the next day and letting myself feel joy, even if it was small at first. I set realistic goals for myself and each horse, and focused on small daily steps. Even during the rut I stayed disciplined enough to keep progressing, which I’m proud of.

Final thoughts Losing your mojo is uncomfortable, but it’s not permanent. Weather the storm with kindness toward yourself, challenge limiting beliefs, and take courageous, consistent action. There is always a way back, and often it’s closer than you think.

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